People and their kids

So I am not quite done venting. Other parents really frustrate me. Part of it is because I am very opinionated and part of it is because parents are not putting their kids first. Not that I am the perfect mom because I am not but I am a pretty damn good one. One of the things that bothers me is parents feeding themselves before they feed their own kids. That is totally wrong. Whether we have money or not I always make sure my kids have enough food. The second thing that bothers me is people over feeding their kids or making them eat something they don't want to. I have a rule where I give my kids two different choices and breakfast and lunch and if they don't want either then they can wait until snack time or the next meal. Which they are pretty happy with choosing one so they always end up eating. But I don't think you should force feed kids. You know what else bothers me. DIAPERS! when your kids diaper is sagging please change it and if you don't than don't get mad at them when their butt hurts because you were too lazy to change them. Oh and what else...when your kid is doing something wrong don't just sit there and yell at them especially when someone is right next to you. Try getting up off your butt and punishing them. I don't care if you spank or do time outs. whatever floats your boat. But kids need some sort of discipline and guidance and their not going to get it from anyone else but their parents. and whats up with people never taking their kids anywhere anymore. Like grocery stores, shopping, or to the parks. Do you not realize that by not taking them they will never learn to behave in the stores in the first place.  I take my kids everywhere. I cant even pee with out one of them sitting on my lap. And I don't care. I have realized just recently that my boys are growing up super fast and I want to spend as much time with them as possible. Now don't get me wrong I do enjoy breaks too. My parents usually alternate taking one them on a weekend. which is nice because then I get to spend quality time with one of them. And I would never force them to watch them. The boys love them and like spending time up there and my parents enjoy it to..(so they say). You know what else I cant stand, when parents go out partying on weekends and then post pictures on Facebook...seriously what is wrong with you. Now I am sure some of you who are going to read this are going to think I am being a total bitch. And truthfully I am. But for those of you who know me, are going to understand what I am saying and know that I am not one to beat around the bush. So if your mad. Get over yourself..clearly I do not care what you think.